My Week long Fast : Reflections and Observations

So these past seven days, I decided to take a total fast from masturbation in it's entirety. I've done this before, but this week I wanted to focus inward and do some self reflection and observation. So I took down what I've discovered and hope to spot some trends and information that may help me. … Continue reading My Week long Fast : Reflections and Observations

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Matters of Conscience and the Weaker Brother

There are days where I honestly wonder if being public as I have been online about my sexuality and personal kinks was the brightest idea out there. Heaven forbid some innocent person at my church comes across it. I don't know if I'd be ashamed of it. Could I honestly defend my position on my … Continue reading Matters of Conscience and the Weaker Brother

Journey of Depression Part 1

So why am I writing about this exactly? Well this has affected me more than I'd like to admit sometimes. Ironically, I think this journey has also been my greatest personal builder. So where do I start? Oh gee...That may be a hard place to pick. It's largely connected to those I've crushed on. Anyone … Continue reading Journey of Depression Part 1

Why Good Sex Education Is Important

When I say sex education, I mean good factual, honest, minimally awkward sex education. Sounds impossible right? Maybe...But I think we should at least try to do the absolute very best so our kids can be spared some grief later on. I'm neither a parent or family counselor, so you are feel totally free to … Continue reading Why Good Sex Education Is Important

Why I’m Against The Porn Industry

Currently the porn industry is worth a whopping hundred billion dollars and counting. What was once on the hidden on the top shelf of magazine racks, sleazy stores, or adult theaters is now literally one click away. Adult content is more than four percent of total online material, and sixteen percent of searches are for … Continue reading Why I’m Against The Porn Industry

Addiction: My Messy Story and Journey

(This is a long story, so strap in.) When I was about eleven or twelve, how old I really was I have no clue. Looking back all all the details get kind of fuzzy. Maybe that's a good thing. Anyway I was a young impressionable and mostly innocent homsechooled kid. Older siblings were a different … Continue reading Addiction: My Messy Story and Journey

A “Four Letter Word” Christian Teens Need To Know About

Masturbation. Ok. I know, that’s twelve letters. Don’t beat me up over technicalities. I did put it in quotation marks after all. Why is this such a dirty word among most Christian circles, conservative or otherwise? From what I’ve gathered It’s even more inappropriate than talking about sex. It’s hushed up and kept in the … Continue reading A “Four Letter Word” Christian Teens Need To Know About